By Elli Baldwin, CDP
How to Support an Aging Neighbor
Information, insight, and support when caring for an aging loved one or neighbor
One of the many things that makes St. Pete a great place to live is the diverse neighborhoods. We live in an area surrounded by gorgeous scenery and people. We are in a time when the biggest generation in history has started to age, so it’s important to support the aging community. An easy way to support the aging community is to start at home in your community. Do you have an aging neighbor?
You can support your aging neighbors in many ways, and it starts with getting to know them. So if you haven’t already, introduce yourself, and visit. Get to know them – do they have family near? Do they have pets? What do they like to do or eat? Perhaps you can offer to help them take out the garbage? Or bring in the groceries? Do you have little kids or teenagers? Teach your kids to pitch in and help out when appropriate.
After getting to know your neighbor, you should ask for emergency contact information. Talk about what their emergency plan is in case of a hurricane or a fall. It’s always a good idea to have a contact person in case they need help. Are you worried about your aging neighbor? How will you know if they need help?
Here are seven signs to look for when you are worried about your elderly neighbor:
1) How does the outside space look?
Is your neighbor able to keep up their outdoor space/yard? Or has it become increasingly unkempt? The shape of the outdoor space often mimics the shape of the indoor space, although outdoor space can be harder to maintain. If you see the space deteriorating, it may be time to check-in and offer help.
2) Has the trash been taken out?
If you notice that the trash has yet to be maintained, this is a sign that your neighbor could use an extra hand. It may be hard for your neighbor to ask for help, but don’t be afraid to offer. Often people don’t want to burden others and are afraid to ask for help.
3) Have you seen your neighbor recently?
Has your neighbor’s car moved? Have you seen them bring in food to the house recently? If you can’t remember the last time you saw your neighbor bringing in groceries, or out and about, it may be time to check in.
4) Are lights left on all day, or not on at all into the night?
If you notice that your neighbor hasn’t turned on/off the lights when it is appropriate, this can be a sign it is time to check in immediately.
5) Have you seen your neighbor wandering or walking around confused?
Wandering and seeming confused are both signs of memory decline and could also be a sign of stroke. If you notice your neighbor wandering confused, it is best to call 911.
6) Is their pet cared for?
If you sense pet neglect, this could be a sign that your neighbor is unwell, and not able to care for themself or others. Does your neighbor have a dog? Has the dog been walked recently?
7) Is your neighbor looking physically frail or recently lost weight?
If your aging neighbor seems frail, weak, or recently lost weight it could be a sign they need more support.
It can be hard to approach your neighbor with concerns, we understand. If you have concerns, be sure to let someone in their family know ASAP. If you have concerns but aren’t sure who to contact, give us a call. We can help to connect you with local resources. Also, our Sunways website has a Caregiver blog and so many free downloads and resources, so be sure to check it out! www.sunwaysseniorliving.com
Always remember, you don’t have to walk this journey alone. Because our services are free to our clients, please contact me anytime to discuss your unique situation and see how we can support you. “See” you next month! If you have any specific topics or questions you would love for me to cover, please contact info@sunwaysseniorliving.com or call 727-314-6415.
Sunways Senior Living Concierge
www.sunwaysseniorliving.com
info@sunwaysseniorliving.com
727-314-6415
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